Hello
everyone, today's segment is going to be on the discussion of
forgiveness and the art of allowing forgiveness for ourselves to be able
to receive it from another.
From the ancients, now and on to our future, healing is
coming from the forgiveness mechanism everyone desires for deeply within
that which comes from the foundations of who we are.
Healing in forgiveness comes from a place of the profound
love that is found within ourselves. It can be a little hard at times to
understand why forgiveness is even needed within ourselves or for
another, we cannot start any journey without letting go of what has been
in order to get to where we are now and where our path is leading to.
In life we have all encountered some kind of hurt, pains or
regret from mistakes that has come about throughout this life. But as
we go further into who we are, we understand that these experiences has
made us into the person that we have come to be today and it is also the
fact of who soon will become from everything that we hope to aspire to
be in this journey of life.
No matter if it is our likes or dislikes, the contrast
between being able to love and see forgiveness is also the dividing
lines of what pain and happiness comes from as well. When we go ahead
and find these things within our looking glass, we also begin a
realization that maybe these things had to come to our life experiences
in order for us to move forwar
There are a lot of people that have came to me and spoke
about some of the pains & hurt they were or are having in their
lives from the people that were closest to them and around them. I have
also been given that pain in my life from individuals that I don't seek
to have any forgiveness for from what I may feel they deserve in return
because of that hurt.
Although as I contemplated on it, I began to realize that
the more I do not offer that forgiveness from deep within my heart, it
would only keep me bounded in the exact feelings I needed to be free of
and also where I did not want to be.
Love is the absolute healing for anything and everyone and
forgiveness comes right along with this too. Because in order to forgive
ourselves of any transgressions, we have to be able to allow that same
forgiveness with another.
We do not have to become a best friend to them of the hurt
which was given or the pain. It is good for us to be able to accept what
has happened to us and to be able in moving forward in our lives,
letting that person explore the journeys that they have lived out now
and a journey that we are going towards for greater understanding and
alignment from within.
It is easier to hate someone than to give love to someone,
it is easier to find faults in others or things rather than finding a
purpose of why we can be content in that moment, it is easier to find
something we dislike rather than something we like and enjoy.
In some many ways it takes a bit of persuasion and effort
to be a in a feeling place of good and the greatness we all were created
to be in. It is easy to be in hate and unmerciful when the heaviness of
unforgiven times we've endured rises inside of the hearts we have. What
we can do is find exactly what confines us to holding onto this
experience and how to develop it and utilize these moments to perpetuate
forward from the knowledge that has derived from it. We need to give
ourselves that comforting love and happiness whole heartedly, with that
forgiveness of freedom to be better than who and what we are today.
This is not to be said that we have to do this in the blink
of an eye, but rather subtle daily ones. Not necessarily overnight
changes but gradual slow evolving changes in which ever ways makes us
most comfortable into the process. The waves that will occur in our self
healing journeys are meant to help our expansion broaden and being able
to receive the healing for our self growth as well as the forgiveness
for another or from another.
It may not be forgotten but we have the absolute power for
it to be forgiven, in order to relinquish the strife placed upon us and
to give ourselves exactly all the greatness we deserve in this life. It
is for us to move forward without holding on to anything that is not
willing to let us go, we must allow it to release from our lives and
continue our wonderful journeys.
When you have a chance, check out the blog and find any
articles that can help keep your mind at ease and make you feel more
clearer within yourself in order to feel that love and relief to find
that forgiveness, rather it be to yourself or to another.
As "Les Brown' quotes from the old African proverb, "- If there is no enemy from within, then nothing can do is harm."-
This is your host & blogger "Lex' and I will be talking to you all soon, thank you.. stay blessed and only you!
People always say they don't forgive others because they don't deserve it. We are not suppose to forgive people based on whether they deserve it or not, but we are to forgive because we respect and love ourselves enough to. When you forgive someone, you release love and you are able to grow. When you don't, you have no room for growth and end up trapped.
ReplyDeleteWell said Britanica, well said!
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