Creating your own destiny may be hard, but not if you truly want to live life on your own terms. When you’ve got the motivation and the drive deep within you, anything is possible.
If you really put your mind and heart into it, no one can stop you. Your destiny is yours and yours alone. It’s ready for you to take it. You just need to figure out how. So, here are 4 secret ways you can use to create your own destiny!
#1. Figure out who you really want to be
You can’t create your own destiny if you don’t know where you want to go. The first thing you need to do is to figure out who you really want to be in life. You’re free to be anything you want, however, you’ve got to choose something realistic and sensible
2. Change your attitude
You don’t have to be on the receiving end of things all the time. Creating your own destiny entails taking over the reins. This means being in charge of your life.
Tell the world you’re going down the road less traveled if need be. But you
3. It’s all in the detailsIf you want your vision for yourself to come true, then you need to plan out how you
You can’t just say, “Oh, I’m sure all the pieces will fall into place someday.” Remember, you’ve got to change your attitude and take life by the horns instead of letting it take you where you don’t
4. Don’t be afraid to take chances
Take every opportunity to learn whether it’s from your failures or successes. Knowledge can’t ever 
Hey this is cool and great! Yeah if we really put our minds and hearts into achieving something, no one can stop us from achieving that, provided we work harder enough and do not easily give up and also as you shared--- “You’re free to be anything you want, however, you’ve got to choose something realistic and sensible as well. Otherwise, you’re setting yourself up for big-time failure!” This is big a one. The four ways that you have shared is great. I love them. In order to go somewhere we first need to know where we need to go , how we are gonna go and which path to take to go there. If we do not know what we want to be –We will be clueless about what to do. I wanna be something but but know where will take me just one place- NOWHERE. Clear goal setting is important, who do I wanna be.
ReplyDeleteOnce do walk down that road is important . Attitude does the 90% of the work. Sometimes you have to be a loner to realize your dreams- but I think its worth it. There is a say whoever fail to plan actually plan to fail. I can testify about that- In my early career I had my goals set, I knew where to go and how to go and I had the guts to go alone but I had no plan that could be executed- I failed miserably. But yeah I learnt a lesson and as you shred in your fourth point and did repeat the same mistakes. Actually you know when we fail – we actually grow, when we have learnt from it.