It
is time for the "RDDC' segment! Hello everyone, today we have a special
request from one of our readers who's name is Caren" from Boise Idaho',
that asked about dating someone who has children and pursuing a
relationship with them and where should they stand between it.
I'm delighted that the question was brought up, because it
is also on the hearts and minds of hundreds of thousands of people out
here in the world that enter into relationships like this if not
millions.
Entering such a sensitive conversation for people, it is
also brought up to all those who either have children, those who do not
have children, or those who have children with another person who has
children blending into a relationship like this, is going to bring up
some kind of feelings in some way, shape or form.
If someone knows that they're entering a relationship with
someone who has children, they must understand the drawing lines between
that relationship before any further time is brought between them.
It does not simply mean if that person doesn't talk to the
children directly or create a bond with them that you are avoiding their
feelings from being hurt in the relationship.
It comes to the point of that whom is getting involved with
rather a serious one or not, you are still getting into an involvement
with the parent that has both sides in everything that is around their
structure of life. Entering this unique relationship with this person
also embodies what comes with them and yourself.
If you are getting involved with someone who has children,
that person has their emotions invested into what is being built between
that relationship.
So understanding that the children are going to be affected
in some way or another just feeding from those emotions of the parent
sharing them unknowingly. Rather it be the happiness felt, even sadness
or anger, it is all combined together because we are all connected
together, either way a person is getting involved with the children no
matter how one may be seeing it happening.
Everything in life has a ripple effect that comes within it
to the Source of all things. Possibly it's going to be a creation of
things or the manifestations on how we live out our paths.
Just because the person has children or a child, does not
mean that one's love cannot expand to involve those children that comes
with that person and just because the person might not have any children
or child when entering the relationship, does that mean that they are
only abundant to what emotions they may be feeling or in tuned with.
It is the responsibility of both people to understand that
the children are involved no matter how far or deep the relationship may
be or get. But it is also the understanding that the relationship can
go further beyond anyone's mentality to comprehend once everything is
set in to motion. This does not mean that the relationship will fail
because there are children and it does not mean that the relationship
will fail because there are not any children in the other persons life
yet.
In this universe there can be no such thing as a
coincidence because all things happen for a reason. This person might
add enough movement and specialty's to your life, and at the same time
your children's lives as well.
The other person may add enhancements to their children's
lives because of the newness of that union, whereas the other person who
does not have any children may possibly learn more from this
relationship and learn a new perspective of loving little ones in this
world.
Or simply it might seemingly cause them into wanting to
create a family with that someone or in life one day, but ultimately
both people involved can be learning more about life's fullness in
general with the children there and just themselves.
We must let the right ones come into our lives that we feel
may be a nurturing relationship for the children that we have with us
and we must also understand the nurturing relationship with that
ourselves when we enter a relationship with someone who has no children.
If we are bringing in children into a relationship with
children, we need to understand that it is going to be in a lasting
impression and surrounded by energies and emotions of a lifetime.
So making and giving the most respect and love into it,
will only bring forth the best out of it and it has the abilities to
continue a wonderful journey where both sides are perpetuating in
happiness.
When we are looking to find something, something is already
looking to find us and once we encounter the greatness that we have
been in search of which is seemingly given to us by the Creators
complete abundance, we need to embody it for its full embracement and
understand that resisting can only make things worse.
We need to also understand that the emotions we share are
always connected to each other throughout this journey of life, so we
must bring those who enter our paths up, and never let the harmony in
our alignment bring anyone or ourselves down.
A person will know who is brought forth in their lives and a
person will know what steps that have to be taken next, it is all about
the feelings that we connect to in the vibrations given to us from the
universal principles being distributed every second we thrive in. So
enjoy the journey, explore the endless possibilities and only move
forward to the greatness that awaits us all.
Just because we do have these relationships we enter into
doesn't necessarily reflect that we have to neglect our own needs, wants
and desires for ourselves and from another. Nor vise versa in their
lives or children's lives.
The children are innocent in any given situations of the
adults unions and connectivity of their first encounters. So evaluation
of the relationship at hand will define the understanding between them
and the beginning stages, and the relationships that stand within the
father's and mother's of the children that are getting involved with
should be discussed also.
Thank you for tuning in to this segment and I hope this helps you in any way you can apply its messages to your life.
Please contact our support for any inquiries, this is your
host and blogger "Lex' and we will be speaking again soon, stay blessed
and only you!
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